Dating a girl who cuts herself
There's a lot of self regret and embarrassment, she may be worried about what you think or will think of her, and that her cutting has something to do with you when it doesn't.
Let her know about this forum, if she can't talk to you when she feels like harming, perhaps she can come and talk on here. We are only in the early stages of dealing with her problems but I know exactly where I want to go.
In fact, I myself have been accused of *harming* my girlfriend by a complete stranger when he saw the marks.
I've never judged her about them..I imagine a number of people (strangers) do.
She wants to turn back the clock: not get the tattoo..not have the scars.
But that love on the other hand can be the key to begin the healing process.
Yes, many people have odd opinions about cutting and they can be cruel.