Dating in aa recovery
When we women get to AA, we are usually not very good at selecting the right man for us (our picker is broken).
The type of man that is attracted to a newcomer is a whole different variety than the man who is attracted to the woman fully established in recovery.
If you practice the principles of the AA program, you will become a woman of grace and substance.
There are many promises in the BB and 12X12 and not just the ones listed after step 9.
He is always complaining about what a bad guy he feels like for dating someone so new in recovery; these are ways to look for re-assurance from you that it’s okay he dates you.
You don’t need to get support from a man so early in recovery, stick with the women.5 Ways to Recognize a Predator in AA: The Guy That Says He Doesn’t Want to Mess with Your Recovery but Still Dates You This is the guy that starts dating you and automatically starts to say that it isn’t right and he can’t date you because you’re a newcomer, but he still continues to date you!
He gets jealous when you hang out with your girlfriends and even if you go places without telling him where you are.
If your sponsor suggests you break up with him (which I’d be shocked if she didn’t) he tells you that you probably need to get a new sponsor.
There are promises sprinkled throughout all the literature of the happy, joyous and free experience we have embarked upon.
The type of man that is attracted to a newcomer is a whole different variety than the man who is attracted to the woman fully established in recovery. Easy Does It, JRThank you very much, Dallas and JR.I will be talking with my "friend" directly about my feelings and my plan to cool it for at least a year.