Dating selfish woman
Aren’t we all a little too quick on the draw with labels in general?
It seems like a slew of articles came out on the subject and now everyone and their mother has suddenly turned into a diagnostic therapist. Do we really know enough about that person to put that label on them?
We’ve evolved to consider other people’s needs to the ; these social and communication skills helped us survive as a species. If the answer isn’t interesting, interrupt with another TMI. Maybe you need to be a little less accommodating and people pleasing and a little more self-empowered and take charge.
As women, we take those intuitive skills for granted. That’s like worrying a fish will drown in water – he barely notices it. When a woman is talking about something she loves, something she cares about, something she has an opinion about, something she’s proud of, something that matters to her – it is so freaking sexy to a man. I love how every culture has such a different and unique story with food. If you try these approaches and he still talks over you, ignores you, doesn’t listen to you, minimizes you, then my advice would be to move on.
Men and women’s brains are different and we react to various levels of stress differently.
But if he’s selfish, you will not have a relationship with a true partner. And you’ll always be on the short end of the stick, which is not a fun place to be.Do you think its worth mentioning to him that he was too selfish?