Dating the single mom
I implore you to drop all previous learned dating ingenuity and approach her authentically and with unadulterated intentions. it doesn’t even have to promote a back n’ forth about your day. This said, never underestimate the power of a good text. But, unless you have an unusual circumstance; like a big job changing presentation due, your mother passed away or the world has literally fallen onto your shoulders, your busy is nothing compared to her busy. However, a good single mother will nurture the shit out of you while you’re stressed. So, when you ask about the kids, make it in relation to her.
Any shadiness or unreliability though puts her in an uncomfortable place and you will lose her. This is self-preservation and ultimately a mom protecting her cubs. This is not meant to scare you away, its more or less a way to gauge how easily you scare. It’s also a way of putting all her cards out on the table and hoping to find that you hold no poker face, but can handle it all. Look, no one wants to date someone whose ex is still in the picture.
(And weren’t you looking for someone who would be a great mother?
She’s incredibly patient, but doesn’t have a lot of tolerance for bad behavior.
It may be difficult at times, but I promise you; if you’re fortunate enough to find yourself with a single mom and you love her?
The respect and love you will receive in return will be one of devotion, kindness, passion and caring. She knows that life doesn’t always go as planned and has learned how to make the best of it. Single moms can do it all, but are super-appreciative of a helping hand.