Online dating insecurity
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril...
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
We could've grown and progressed personally and financially together if the chemistry and connection was there.
I wouldn't want someone to value me through my job or how much money I make.
Probably I will have to wait another 2-3 years to be financially secure.
This means that I have to wait until I'm close to 40 to get into a relationship if ever!!
Maybe this is irrelevant, but I didn't get married before I traveled abroad to get my Ph D because I was thinking that I must be ready and financially independent when I get married, but looking back I think I made a mistake.
At my mid 30s, and after a couple of years after finishing my Ph D, I'm still not ready and financially insecure because I don't have a stable job (currently not working).
People are going to have different perspectives of things and different opinions.
If you have valid reasons then I wouldn't put yourself down over it. I'm out every day at the sports centre to lose weight and get fit and I've done voluntary work so I don't think I'm a slacker.