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Some lesbians liked to be tight-lipped (no pun intended) about the gay underworld. I see it like this: It’s hard enough to be gay in this cruel, cold, heteronormative world.
We don’t need to make it even harder on the young bloods by keeping our world so secretive.
Maybe it was my aloofness that drew in the dudes (straight girls take note), but damn, dudes were easy like ~Sunday morning~.
All you have to do is bat a lash, act entirely disinterested, cold and bitchy, and boys will fall at your feet.
Like I said, lesbians are elusive and hard to seek out, especially if you live in a small town. Lesbians are usually nice and friendly to fresh meat and are more than happy to welcome you into the fold (a little sometimes). Let’s brainstorm: Is there a lesbian at work who you’ve never spoken to before? Is your cool older brother friends with a cool older lesbian? Tell her you’re part of the tribe and, most likely, she will invite you to her next night out with the ladies. Send her my way, and I will set that mean lesbian straight. However, I don’t recommend girlfriend-hunting at a straight bar in those fragile early days of your gayness.
Maybe your plumber is a lesbian (for real, though). Karma will surely bite her in the ass, and she will die, sexless and surrounded by aging cats. And if you can’t find a lesbian mentor, don’t worry. And lesbians are so incestuous that we’ve all dated each other by now. There is always a lesbian art walk, or book club, or walk across the Brooklyn Bridge. I used to troll the straight bars when I was a new lez, and almost all the girls I thought were gay weren’t. I just sat back and watched my straight girlfriends make out with fratty-looking boys, and I would just grow increasingly bitter and irritated and end up overdrinking and waking up depressed and hopeless and hungover. In the early days, bite the bullet and GO TO THE GAY BAR (before they shut down). But they have NO right to be offended by you hitting on them when in lesbian land.
So here it is, kids: Zara’s official dating tips for the newly out LEZ.
Robyn Exton wanted to help a gay girlfriend who had gone through a break-up get back on the market.
There’s something out there for everyone, One of the best parts about the girl-on-girl dynamic is that there isn’t really any slut-shaming (as far as my experience goes) in our culture. She's consumed by style, sexuality, women, words, fashion and feelings.